Tina came home, walked straight to her room and closed the door. She buried her head in her hands and without much trying from her side, the tears began to flow. She reclined on her bed and soon was howling when her mother rushed in, worried about what had happened to her usually cheerful 12-year-old daughter. Tina was crying so hard, she could barely get the words out. Tina finally managed to blurt them out
Her mother was puzzled and asked –
So?
Still sobbing furiously, Tina continued –
My skirt was stained and a boy pointed it out to me and then everyone started pointing and laughing
Her mother smiled and reassured her –
Sweetie, no one will even remember tomorrow. And who cares about what the others say?
Tina nodded, though she was not entirely convinced. She then changed and plonked onto her bed in her comfy pyjamas. She logged in to Instagram on her phone and saw that she had so many notifications, more than she even had on her birthday. And then to her horror, Tina saw that her newsfeed was flooded with memes and jokes about periods. Her nightmare of a day had become a virtual reality.
According to education.com, cyber bullying is defined as, ‘‘bullying through email, instant messaging, in a chat room, on a website or gaming site, or through digital messages or images sent to a cellular phone.
Although sharing certain features in common with traditional bullying, cyber bullying not only looks and feels a bit different but also presents some unique challenges when it comes to dealing with it.
According to the studies conducted by Michele Hamm, researcher of pediatrics at University of Alberta, which was published in the journal ‘JAMA Pediatrics’, there is a clear link between cyberbullying and depression. While no concrete relation between cyberbullying and anxiety or cyber bullying and self-harm was seen, ALL ten studies established the relationship between cyberbullying and depression.
Not only does cyberbullying increase depression, but depressed children also seem to be bigger targets of cyberbullying. However, what is most disturbing is that most cyber bully victims suffer in silence because they fear that telling on the perpetrators will get their internet time taken away.
So the trick lies in parents teaching their children about safe internet usage, and knowing that taking away internet time will not serve the purpose.
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