My grandmother was one of the strongest women I knew. She was bulletproof in every way. She taught me how to keep a cool & calm head in the most adverse of situations, and was the definition of poise. There was a lot I learnt from her and her loss was particularly damaging for me. But it was the circumstances surrounding her loss that taught me one very profound life lesson.
You can die of a broken heart.
In less than a week of the passing of my grandfather, my grandmother passed away too. My grandfather had been suffering and frequenting the hospital for well over 7 years. There were many who were thankful that he had lived a long and full life. There were those who were grief stricken at the loss of a beloved. But my grandmother stayed quite. She was jaded and her eyes were glazed. There was a quiet goodbye between the two of them just before he was taken off to the crematorium.
And then there was the depression. She wouldn’t eat or drink. She had lost interest in everything. A wry smile used to flash when she saw her grandchildren, and then she’d go back to her pensive self. On the 6th day, she broke down and cried her heart out. I could never imagine seeing her like that, but she quickly composed herself. That was the last time I saw her alive. She went to sleep that night and she never woke up.
My mother told me that she had a heart attack and died in her sleep. But I overheard the doctor talking to them, saying something about a “broken heart syndrome”. That’s when it hit me. She was grieving too. She and my grandfather had been together for over half a century. Suddenly losing her life partner would have been so hard on her. But hard enough to kill her? I wasn’t sure.
So I researched and it turned out to be true – there is something called a broken heart syndrome. It resembles a heart attack and is induced by high levels of physical or mental stress. And yet, the ECG from a broken heart looks nothing like a heart attack. The blood test shows no sign of damage to the heart. But there is a physical swelling of the heart and it hinders proper functioning of the heart. This can actually cause permanent damage to the heart too.
What was unfortunate about this particular incident is that broken heart syndrome is usually not fatal, and people affected by it usually recover within in a few weeks. However, if left untreated, it can cause permanent damage, and in rare cases, it can be fatal. In my grandmother’s, it was probably the time at which it happened. Nobody could have known.
After that day, I always found myself asking, “would she have wanted to go the way she did?” She missed my wedding and she never got to know my wife. My sister never got to see as much of her as I did. But at the same time, it is extremely selfish of me to have expected her to live for me, even after her beloved departed.
Did she want to go? There is a clear correlation between heart disease and depression, but how much of it is related to her losing interest in living?
I’ll never know.
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게이츠 오브 올림푸스
Zhu Houzhao는 “실제로 시도해 볼 수 있습니다…”라고 말했습니다.
비바 슬롯
하지만… 이것이 그의 유일한 방법이라는 것을 그들은 어떻게 알았습니까?
퀵 슬롯
누군가 화를 내며 말했다.
에그벳슬롯
다행히도 … 내 옆에는 가장 사랑스럽고 사랑하는 Wang Shouren이 있습니다.
마종 웨이즈
모두가 탑에 올라타 정신을 차리기 전에 빽빽이 들어찬 타타르족을 바라보았다.
문 프린세스
Zhu Houzhao는 Fang Jifan에게 하얀 표정을 지었고 손을 등 뒤로 한 채 매우 흥분했습니다.
온라인 슬롯 게임 추천
지금까지 황실 전하는 돈을 갚을 기미가 보이지 않습니다.
입플 사이트
어느 아이가 깨달음을 얻었을 때 부모의 친절을 말하지 않습니까?
황제 슬롯
게다가 황태후는 아직 여기 계시고 앞으로 몇 년 동안 그녀를 떠날 수 없을 것 같습니다.
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그러므로 나는 이 사람을 지축을 부수도록 계속 불어넣을 수밖에 없었다.
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나는 사람들의 바다를 보았고 모두 웃고 박수를 쳤습니다.저는 이 사람이 여전히 국부론에 대해 이야기하고 있다는 느낌이 듭니다. 정말 혐오스럽습니다.
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홍지황제는 “도둑이 지금 어때?”라고 안타까워했다.
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은광인 Zhang Heling과 Zhang Yanling을 생각하면 심장을 찌르는 듯한 고통을 느낍니다.
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“가져가라…가져와.” 주자이모는 순순히 금인을 꺼냈다.
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그래서 Fang Jifan은 Wang Shouren과 매우 동의하고 두 명의 스승과 제자가 서로 일치합니다.
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Hongzhi 황제는 놀랐습니다 종탑은 얼마나 멀리 있습니까? 여기에서 볼 수 있습니까?
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