Sexual Dissatisfaction With Partner – How Can We Be Open About It?

Source: www.themangonews.com

“I have been faking orgasms for over forty years now”, said a women on a popular webpage while discussing sex related issues. It might seem pretty shocking and funny to someone reading it for the first time. But the truth is it can happen to anyone, even you at some point of time in a relationship. There are more than just this one women sitting behind the bars of the society, unable to talk about it.

Sexual dissatisfaction is the most common issue that couples neglect to discuss. But the effects of having physical intimacy without satisfaction can be deep emotional discontent. It has been often observed that many heterosexual women complain about being sexually dissatisfied. The most common reasons behind this is, they have less or no knowledge about their body or they are scared of discussing the issue with their male counterparts. But then sexual dissatisfaction has been observed among men equally and they seem to be very uncomfortable in expressing and discussing the issue.

Sex is easier said than done. It is a pleasure both the parties should enjoy. And this can never happen unless there is communication. It has been observed that most couples who claim to be having wonderful sex are the ones who communicate. They look at sex as something beyond just a physical act; as a way of bonding their relationship better. And there is clearly no bonding unless you figure out a common comfort zone. This will nurture a better relationship as transparency is the most essential aspect of being in a relationship.