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Legend has it that Children have impressionable minds! What they see and what they hear leave deep impressions on them. And with these interpretation of children, develop a myriad of emotions in them. And emotions need to be expressed! Children have their own unique ways of expressing them. They don’t care whether its harmful, unless they are taught otherwise.
This is what young Abhi Karmarkar (name changed)was going through. Abhi was a 7 year old innocent child. He had in those few years experienced fear and rage. Abhi was only 6 months old when his mother suffered from a severe asthma attack. She was hospitalized. Due to complications, she had to stay in the hospital for two months. Little Abhi was living with his grand parents and Papa. He would cry to meet his mom, but she would be nowhere in sight.This had made him very insecure. The worse was yet to come. His Papa left within a month to Abu Dhabi for work. Being in the construction line, he had to travel and be on site for most of his working time. With even Papa gone, Abhi felt very scared. His primary caregivers were out of picture.
Abhi’s mom came home after two long months. Abhi reacted in the most unpredictable way. At 8 months, it was obvious that when Abhi would see his mother he would be delighted. But on the contrary, Abhi did not want to go to his mother. He preferred to be left with his grand parents. Slowly, after a few weeks of seeing mom around, Abhi started going to her. Things started settling, or at least the Karmarkar family thought so. By age 5 they both shifted to Abu Dhabi. He was reunited with his father, but he had no clue about what a father has to do in his life. This was a huge change in Abhi’s life. It affected him in ways that he could not express. He started eating junk food. Due to his excess weight gain, he was teased by his peers. All of this was too much for him to take. But emotions had to be expressed one way or another.
When Abhi came to me for therapy, he was uncontrollable. He would break his toys out of anger, he would punch the window glass, not caring about the consequences. He also burnt his toys and broke furniture at home. Every time his emotions started raising, he would want to destroy something to take control of them. That had become his way of coping. I had within a few sessions understood that all he needed was release. He had pent up emotions of fear, anxiousness, mistrust and anger. All these emotions were making him insecure.
When I started therapy, I made it a point to get into his world. He had made a world for himself where he was in control. Being a big fan of transporters, he had a case full of their toys. Iron man, Superman and even Hulk were part of the game. Together, we would sit throughout the session and play his games. I allowed him to take control initially, but after a few sessions I noticed he was getting calmer. So I helped him to learn new techniques to express his anger. We would have pillow fights, we would punch Bo Bo dolls, we would go running in his garden together. He started showing behavioral changes that helped him adjust to the environment.
Once he was able to express his anger and fear, it was time to help him learn to deal with them. During play sessions, he learnt about how to deal with insecurity. We made family games with his toys where he had an opportunity to express his insecurity within his family life. We also had family sessions where his parents were part of the games. His biggest challenge was to trust people around him. With time, he started trusting his mom and dad. His eating habits improved and he was better able to express his anger. The boy who burnt toys once, was now building toys out of Lego and blocks to express his anger. He started painting, started going for walks with his parents and even started experimenting with cooking.
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About the Author
Anushri Shah is a creative, energetic and positive counselling professional having a compassionate and insightful attitude, with a skill set of active listening, empathy, and goal focused problem solving over 2 years of experience in areas of child, family and parental counselling, Expertise in holistic development of children/adolescence and adults through planning and implementation of case specific therapeutic strategies, using therapy applications of CBT, REBT, Play Therapy and testing for IQ, Personality, Interest etc if and when required..
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관객이 없다 보니 너무 수다스러운 헛소리를 하는 것 같다.
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큰 책가방을 들고 있는 아이의 익살스러운 표정에 탕인은 크게 웃었다.
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Ma Wensheng은 깜짝 놀랐고 병사들과 함께 Wang Gong의 공장으로 서둘러갔습니다.
사설 토토 사이트
Fang Jifan은 고개를 저었습니다. “폐하, Xishan … 더 이상 지을 수 없습니다.”
와이즈 토토 커뮤니티
“예, 예.” 늙은 관리는 부끄러운 얼굴로 “이 관리는 영원히 죽을 것이다”라고 말했다.
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더 많은 사람들이 기절했습니다. 그런 일이 돈 가치가 있습니까?
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이 서양인들은 모두 바보입니다. 이번에는 정말 큰 돈을 벌었습니다! 오예!
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“거짓말하지 마. 나는 바보지만, 너의 눈이 바람을 두려워하지 않는다는 것도 알고 있어.”
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Zhu Houzhao는 흥분하여 말했습니다. “Old Fang, 가자, 내가 데려다 줄게 …”
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이 젊은 스승은 매우 강력하여 어린 나이에 수많은 사람들의 아버지이자 할아버지입니다.
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Hongzhi 황제는 이미 도착했고 동시에 많은 대신이 궁전에 근무했습니다.
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Zhu Houzhao가 점점 더 뻔뻔스러워지는 것을 보고 Xie Qian은 결국 어쩔 수 없었습니다.
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선발된 대부분의 장인들은 선조로부터 물려받은 유산을 가지고 있습니다.
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오스트리아의 합스부르크 왕가도 이 현상에 주목했습니다.
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사실, 논리적으로 말하면, 그는 카운티 관리들과 논의해야 합니다.
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그냥 조무빈, 우리에게 직접 지시를 내리는 게 좋지 않을까요?
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제목을 올린 이유는 사실 가장 현실적인 고려다.
토토 와이즈
“…” Fang Jifan은 마음 속으로 궁금해하기 시작했습니다. 이것은 … 저주입니까?
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Wang Shouren은 과묵하고 아무 말도하지 않고 고기를 먹었습니다.
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그것도 못 만들면 손바닥이 반쯤 부러졌으니 대처 방법은 손바닥을 절단하는 것뿐이다.
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타이거의 마음 깊은 곳에서 소중한 한 표를 행사할 수 있습니까?
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큰 텐트에서 기침이 나고 폐하가 일어나기를 기다릴 시간이었습니다.
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그는 화를 내며 앞으로 나아갔습니다. “이건 농담이 아닙니다, Ouyang Xiuzhuan …”
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“나이도 어리지 않은데 그렇게 무식하단 말인가?”
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반면 멀리 있는 순천관 관리들은 큰 피해를 입지 않았다.
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이때 누군가 앞으로 나섰는데, 공무부 장관 왕 아오였습니다!
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이 두 단어는 모든 상인들의 마음을 감동시키기에 충분합니다.
골드 킹
내 사촌이 어떻게 그런 편지를 쓸 수 있니?
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잊어버리고 굴라시 먹자 하루종일 뒤척이다 보니 정말 배가 고프고 피곤하다.
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창위는 엎드려 절하며 “폐하께 보고하오니, 제자 등은 모두 학자입니다.”
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바다에 얼음이 있다는 것이 사실이라면…
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법무부 장관, 달리 사원 장관, Zuo Du의 Yushi는 모두 씁쓸한 표정을지었습니다.
슬롯 머신
미래의 내부 자금과 또 다른 수입원을 생각하면 Hongzhi 황제는 기분이 좋았습니다.
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갑자기 모든 교사와 학생들이 사라졌습니다.
마종 웨이즈
Hongzhi 황제는 “Liu Qing의 가족, 내가 처리해야합니다. 번거롭게해서 죄송합니다. “라고 말했습니다.
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가장 큰 차이점은 감자가 주식으로 더 적합하다는 것입니다.
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